STOP THE SHIT TALKERS

blog Feb 16, 2023
#1 Thing Holding You Back

Here's what's holding you back in your business... shit-talking gremlins. Otherwise known as limiting beliefs. I just think what I call them makes them feel more like an army of little soldiers that I can fight. And win.

Here's how:

Your mindset is holding you back so... one of the first things that you need to work on in order for you to really break through are your limiting beliefs. Those are the things you might believe about yourself (spoiler alert, they're bullshit). All because these little shit-talkers in the back of your brain have been whispering. Mean things. Things meant to cause doubt. Things like who do I think I am? I'm too young or too old to be doing this. I need to wait until the time is right. I need to wait until I'm more experienced. This sounds like a lot of work. Maybe I should wait until my kids are a little bit older. What if nobody listens or cares what I have to say or nobody likes what it is that I'm offering? There are so many more successful people than me. The industry is saturated. There's no way I'm going to figure this out. I have no idea what I'm doing. Most people fail... why should I even try. And on and on and on.   

All these things you start to believe. You listen to them. They're winning. And now you think about them and say them to yourself so often they've stopped you from taking action. They fear has crept in and you're scared

Start letting the fear be the fuel for you to start today. You are in control of your mind. And let me show you the very easy way I fight off the gremlins.

Get rid of the limiting beliefs by writing them down. Every mean and senseless thought. 

Now, right next to each thought... write down the truth.

The truth looks more like I am an ambitious woman who can make anything happen and the sky is the limit. I am at the perfect time in my life to get started to see success. I have experience. There will be no better way to learn than to dive in. I have done hard things before and this isn't any different. I will put one foot in front of the other and just keep going. My kids are not a reason I will fail, if anything they will be the reason I get up every single day and make it happen. There is no one in this world that is me. I am unique and I will bring that uniqueness into everything I do. I will do whatever it takes to succeed.

Say the truth. Say it often and I swear you'll really start believing it. And those things the nasty little gremlins were saying before, you'll catch. You'll catch yourself saying them all the time. I still do! Because we're human and we get scared. Don't let that stop you from doing what you really want to do. It is absolutely okay to be scared. Do it scared. It is okay to be uncomfortable, do it uncomfortable. It is okay to be unsure. Do it even though you're unsure. You just gotta start where you are. You are going to have to get in the habit of facing fear. 

That is the attitude and the discipline that people that are successful have. When you start to create some movement, that movement is going to create momentum. And that gets you closer to your fear so you can get comfortable with it, understand it, and overcome it.

So maybe you've been here before and you've tried and you've failed and tried and failed. You're tired of having to keep doing things over and over again and not seeing results. Now that you know what's been holding you back... you have to do something about it. So what I've learned is to recognize these limiting beliefs, these lies, and stop them immediately by telling myself the truth.

And once you know and can control your mind, there's only very little else that can be holding you back. Some of those things might look like having a lack of direction, not knowing where to start, or feeling like you're sort of lacking some of the skills so you can take the right action...well you're in luck. I have a ton of things coming down the pipeline to help! Things to help you with the skill sets to be the CEO and business owner who has the plan with the right actions. The plan to succeed, more time, and more money.

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